The secret of happiness

 

             

   Happiness, its one of the most important thing to keep a person living. Happiness, people who are mentally mature can easily understand that happiness is not only a feeling, but it's a part of our lives which helps us to move on. Happiness makes us feel alive. It inspires us, it motivates us, it encourages us and it helps us to get up after a fall.  Furthermore, even the darkest person in the world need happiness to live on.  Now the question stands:-

    "How can you find happiness?"

We'll, this question is quite a common question people ask so let me tell you the secret of happiness and try to make you smile after you had read this post.
  Happiness differ from mind to mind and heart to heart. Well, as its a feeling, so casually it differs from heart to heart.

Someone said to me once, "If you want happiness, smile."
Smile? Is smile happiness? Maybe , but do you know that it doesn't mean the physical smile, it means the smile of your heart, it means a kind of joy you feel inside, that's the true smile and this oppress you curve your eyes and lips to show that. So, if you want happiness, feel the smile. Feel the joy. And.. How can you possibly do that?
Its quite simple. For a second now, close your eyes and thought about the most happy memory you ever had. It could be anything, any achievement, any friend, any victory anything, just thought about it. Now, feel your heart. Can you feel the smile? Can you feel content? Now, smile actually. Are you happy? Defiantly! So now, what is happiness?

*The art of making your heart smile is called "happiness".* 

Well that's my definition. You can find yours. So, after all this, now its time for the secret.
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*To be thankful*
Yes! That's it! That's all! Wait!!! Don't close yet, let me tell you how to be thankful. Its easy, just take a pen and a copy. Write the people you have met, the people who you have a memory with. Any memory.
Done? Have you imagined they would be so much?

Now, try to write the pets, the cats, dogs and sparrows that you have a memory with.
Done?
Not yet, now the time for the best.
Write 1 for a memory and then 2 and 3. Don't explain, just write the numbers. What numbers? The number of times when someone smile because of you. When you feel that you are content.  You feel that you matters. Your birthdays, your parties, school's farewell, college fights, your position day, cousin gathering, family dinner, a big laugh, any one you helped, yes! That's matters. *You matters! *And that the art of happiness. To know that you have things people don't, eyes that blinds don't have, ears which people have but can't use them. It matters! You matters! And the moment you know that you brings so many smiles to so many peoples lives, add so much value to so many people's lives, that's the moment you feel yourself lucky. That's the moment your heart smiles.  And that's the truly, the secret of happiness.